I want to talk a little bit about how to get rid of anxiety and one of the reasons why so many people with anxiety don’t actually end up getting the help for it.
Help for anxiety
And obviously I’ve analysed this for a long time over the last 25 years. And for the last 25 years I have literally must have sat through 1000’s of hours of telephone consultations with people.
Hundreds of hours of reading messages from people on the internet who sent me messages telling me about their anxiety has ruined in their life and that they’ve not done anything for years. Yet here’s the amazing thing, when you do actually then offer people the solution, many of them then go quiet.
They then start going, OK I’ll think about it. When you think about that and if you’ve had anxiety for years and it’s ruining your life and then somebody provides you with a solution. You’d think they’d jump at it. Why do they go quiet with it? Why don’t they go ahead with it? Here’s one of the reasons why, it isn’t every reason but it is definitely one of the reasons. It’s because they are looking for the magic pill.
The magic get rid of anxiety pill
They are looking for someone like myself to do some sort of miraculous thing that will just take their anxiety away without them having to do anything about it. And I’m very, very honest with anyone who ever comes to my anxiety programme, or even books in chat with me.
I always tell them that it always takes work, you always have to work at whatever it is that you have to do.
Now, let’s just imagine though, let’s imagine, let’s play devil’s advocate and pretend there was someone out there whereby you didn’t have to put the effort in. You could just go to see someone like myself and this amazing person was able just to take away your anxiety, years of anxiety, whatever it is all those symptoms you’ve got, and you wouldn’t have to work on it. Imagine that!
How much would that cost you? What would they charge for that service? They could charge whatever they wanted. In fact, they probably just wouldn’t work with regular people, they don’t be working with people like royalty, celebrities, millionaires, billionaires!
Back to reality, though, that doesn’t exist, that person out there does not exist. Everyone that joins my program has to work at it. This is one of the questions I get asked all the time was well.
How much time do I need to work on it Steve? And I’ll say, roughly, the average person has to put in two to three hours a week on my program for 12 weeks in order for it to be successful. They often reply, two or three hours a week, I don’t know I’ve got the time for that! Two to three hours yes, but think about this.
If you’ve got anxiety, you’re anxious for 16 hours a day. It actually works out at 112 hours a week. So if you’re not prepared to put three hours a week in versus 112 hours. Well then you’re going to have anxiety forever. So what I’m saying to you is this. Don’t look for that magic pill, don’t look for that special technique that someone’s offering.
When they say I’ll get rid of anxiety forever in about 20 minutes. It doesn’t exist, if they could do that that we charge in a million pounds of session. So, if you are serious about getting rid of anxiety and you’re considering going to my programme, I’m always very honest with people.
Nothing happens all by itself
You do have to work at it, everything in life that’s ever been worthwhile doing. It took effort. And if you’ve got anxiety and you’ve had it for a long time yes a little bit of a bugger to get rid of, but it’s not impossible. You just need to work with it, or work with me and we can do it, we can change it.
So, I hope that makes sense. And hopefully we get you on the anxiety program, and get rid of it, because it’s it’s raining on your parade it’s fine your life, you don’t have to have it. I’ve now been in anxiety free now for over 30 years and it’s not coming back and it’s gone.
So, when people take that you can’t get rid of it. Ditch those people, it doesn’t have to be a permanent thing. So I hope that makes sense, and I’ll see you again soon for another video. Bye for now.
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